“Do what you normally do as parents, meaning:

• You are interested in knowing how your daughter is doing; you support your child and want her to feel as good as possible.
• You show interest in what your son does; you know where he goes and with whom.
• You set boundaries to protect them. And you give them freedom for them to grow up autonomously.

And regarding alcohol:

• You give the example: you drink small quantities yourself.
• You are very clear: alcohol is not a beverage for people under the age of 16.
• You don’t make a big fuss if your child drinks a little alcohol. But you pay attention: when do you drink? where? with whom?
  Have you observed any changes? If you are unsure, if you are worried: do not hesitate, ask for professional help. The younger your child is, the more alcohol is at stake, the more you should react clearly.”
  
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